Smart Gal

It was the fist day of job in 2009. Not very busy, still manageable.
At night when I was online, I chatted with one of my net friend.
To me, she is very smart, cute and intelligent. Hmmm...you must be wonder why i made such a comments.

She is in earlier 20, married last year to a Singaporean man. Therefore, she needs to leave her lovely family and country to stay with her husband. While chatting, she told me her husband don't like to eat fish, don't like to drink water, always drink cold herbal tea and so on.

To her, husband doesn't like to eat fish is the main concern. As all of us aware, fish has good nutrition and protein. She here is the trick. When they went out for dinner, she will purposely order spicy fish dish. Half way eating, she will claimed she can't finish, due to too spicy. So the husband was indirectly 'force' to finish the food. Isn't that is the smart way rather than request it directly :)

That's another case. Drinking cool herbal tea is not good for health. One day, the mother in law (MIL) boiled herbal tea. She told her MIL that she prefer to have the the herbal tea in room temperature. When she took the herbal tea, she asked her MIL where is her husband's herbal tea? The MIL told her it was in the refrigerator. Immediately she told her MIL the husband would like to have his meal now. It was ten minutes later the herbal tea was store in the refrigerator, therefore the tea is in chill. She will prepared the meal for her husband and got him to drink the herbal tea in chill rather than cool. Isn't that is an intelligent action? It doesn't offend anyone yet still manage to get the objective done.

Hmmm... I should learn from her..Smart wife!! No need to trigger my hot temperature, no need to raise my voice, no offend anyone and reach my objective..

Wish me good luck !!!